Worry mama

My boy is 13m11d.

1. He just doesn’t wave bye bye,

2. He claps randomly on his own will but not doing it when we told him to.

3. He doesn’t really point at the things he wants but will try to grab it.

4. When he sits and saw the things that makes him excited, he’ll move/shakes his leg.

5. He is not a big fans of musical toys and will cry when he heard the noise from it especially if the toy makes talking sound.

6. He doesn’t repeat after us when we tried to teach him to talk.

However,

7. He respond to him name most of the time.

8. He understand us when we told him to sit down, and he will lift up his hand to take off his shirt when we told him too

9. We thought him to touch and feel the texture of an item, and he will copy it the next round we show him the item. 10. He has good eye contact and reach up to be carried.

11. When i sing the song “head & shoulder, knees and toes” he will touch his head, and point at his ear and mouth 😆

Actually there are more.

My concern is, from item 1 to 6, are these red flags for autism?