How do you guys deal with this?

I’d compromise and wait a year, then talk about it again.

Talk about adopting a kitten or a hamster or something? It will give you the opportunity to nurture something while giving him time to prepare himself.

A lot of my clients are women who never finished college/uni then got pregnant. Now, they have kids and are trying to juggle school and it sounds exhausting.Finish school, so you have something independent from him if something ever happens (separation, divorce, death).

Waiting till you finish your school sounds extremely reasonable and responsibly to me I think you should do that.

What I did was start looking into a lot of articles about healthy pregnancies. What to eat, what exercises were safe, how to help prepare for labor day. Looked into recommendations for baby needs. Cribs, swings, mental development toys. Looked into decorations for the nursery I liked and themes. Even made baby registries (on private) to keep track of what things I would like. I'd make one for a girl and one for a boy. I'd look into making baby food at home and recipes for that. As well as home made baby puffs. Pretty much read up as much as I could until he was ready to actively start trying (which was a year later)