First Time

So I’m 17 years old and I’ve been with my current boyfriend for almost six months, and next week we’re planning on getting a hotel for Valentine’s Day and it’ll be my first time havi Nd sex. We’ve done other things (fingering, head - both given and received) but for some reason I’m really nervous and afraid of the pain. The first time he fingered me, it hurt like hell but now it feels so normal to me so I can’t imagine having pain from that type of thing anymore. I’m still scared and I feel like I can’t speak to my friends about it because most of them aren’t sexually active and super religious. Any tips of reducing pain? Also just want some support since I can’t speak to many around me