So earlier today my daughter walked past my dad and scratched him on his hand. Just walked up to him and scratched him. She's 2. So he smacks her hand. I don't hit her because she's too little to know why she's getting hit and I'm not just going to punish her like that. Time out and take things away yes. So anyways I see him smack her hand and I started yelling at him. I didn't mean to actually yell at him but it came out that way. I told him that he doesn't get to do that because she scratched him. I know she shouldn't have BUT she doesn't do this to ANYONE else and she's around my mom, my dad, my aunt, my sister, her brother and her dad. And out of all the people she sees on a daily basis he's the only one she EVER does anything to. I told him this and when he "plays with her" this is the kind of outcome he's gonna get with her. Because when she's being fussy or having a "moment" he likes to mess with her and provoke her and she gets even more whiny and mad because he's messing with her. And I told him that. I kinda feel bad about yelling at him, but I'm not gonna have him smacking her hand cause he's the one that is choosing to be like this with her. Then wonders why she doesn't like to be around him. Honestly she handles it really well for a 2 yr old. But I was just trying to get opinions lol. Was I wrong for that? I did get a little carried away and start yelling but when I saw it I was furious!