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It sounds like she was just making a joke. I don't think she intended to be rude at all. My family ways jokes about how once you have 4 kids everybody forgets how many you have and you might as well have 40. It's just a joke.
Am I being too sensitive to this!
I just recently found out I’m pregnant with baby number 3. My 2 children come from a previous relationship. My fiancé has a daughter that is 28.
We have always gotten along the little time we have been around each other and has always seemed pretty supportive of her father and I relationship. I was in his phone and ran across a few text messages between the two of them and they were talking about the baby ect. She then made the comment saying this is going to be like “cheaper by the dozen” which is a movie about 2 parents raising ALOT of children. She could only be referring to my children plus one on the way. Would you guys totally take this the wrong way like
I did?!????? I think it’s rude and insensitive but I could just be over reacting?!! Help!!!! Keep in mind she has been pretty supportive from what i know. And told him she was happy for us. And for him to “not forget about her” maybe she’s a little jealous idk! Let me know your opinion on the comment please!
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Also, the family in cheaper by the dozen was pretty happy...This just popped in my head too, in the sequel the oldest daughter was pregnant too... Maybe she's hinting at something...?
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Could very well be true. Before that message she told her dad she had some pretty big news as well and didn’t want him upset with her...... I’m sure he would have told me if that’s the case. But you’re so very right!!! Thanks for the input!
Ignore 100%. Nothing you can do about it. It sucks and my husband has talked to his ex about me and I don’t like it and think it’s rude as hell.There should be better boundaries between him and his ex. If their daughter is 28 then I don’t know why he is taking to her about it anyways.AND yes of course she is jealous. As long as he isn’t partaking in it and He didn’t say anything negative about your baby then I would just let it go.Also 3 kids is nowhere close to cheaper by the dozen So she is just being a bitch.
First, it sounds like she was making a harmless joke and second it’s not like she sought you out to say this to you. You, for whatever reason went through your husbands phone and read their messages. So even if you had permission to go through his phone, it’s your own fault you got your feelings hurt.
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