I’ve caught my boyfriend on tinder and talking to random females on Snapchat twice near the end of last year and another time last night. I’ve stayed the last few times because of our son & our baby on the way. The last time he begged me to come back home and he’d change. Start cleaning around the house and spend more time with my son and I and less time on social media and his game. That lasted for about a week and I just dealt with it, i was used to it. But last night I couldn’t even sleep, I got a strong urge that something wasn’t right. Even though he was still taking me out and showing me love like always. So I went through his phone & found out he was talking to multiple females.

He already knew I didn’t go through his phone because I didn’t put it back on the charger or back where he usually has it while he sleeps. So when he got to work, he said this

The whole 2 years we’ve lived together, he has paid rent + all other bills. I’ve always paid for groceries and renters insurance. I’m confused. I’ve never heard of this before? I understand if I paid rent previously but I never have and it’s never been an issue until now.