How to be a good housewife??? Please comment suggestions

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I have been struggling with this for over three years, for example I don't think " okay I'll unload the dishwasher" or "I'll mop and hoover the floors now".

I'm working full time but I want to be able to make my husband proud.

Any suggestions on how to get my mind set right so that I do these things without him having to ask me?

Please help 😂😣