Different sexual levels

Does anyelse feel like since they had kids getting in the mood is harder? Like before kids I was good to go for long periods of time, wanted to have sex more then once a day. Now I want candles, rose petals, a clean house, and a quickie? Can anyone relate? I just tried to have this conversation with my man and he got really upsetting at me. He literally just told me to meet him in the bedroom, was already naked. It's my bedtime, I'm pregnant so I'm extra tired, and he just wants to jump on me. I'm past the point where that works for me. I want it to be that easy but I can't do it. I don't get in the mood like I used to. What am I supposed to do?