Valentine’s Day horror story

I’ve never really been into Valentine’s Day but I’ve been teasing my boyfriend (jokingly) about not really doing any romantic anymore because we used to go on super cool dates ALL the time and so he planned a mini vacation to Cabo San Lucas for a couple days and I actually don’t really want to go!!! I told him it’s because I’m in graduate school and it’s midterms and I don’t want to miss classes and he got mad because I obviously had been saying I wanted dates but I meant more romantic gestures not a full vacation 🤔 am I over reacting??? My education comes first and I don’t want to be judged by him for it all over some Valentine’s Day BS!