🙄 how do I know.if this mf like me or not?

I am a 22f that was in a relationship for 4 years (that I didnt love him in) and cheated on him in the end.

Basically I dont know how adults work.

This guy looks at me really intensely like he thinks I'm attractive and we have really good convo & Interactions in person..but he doesn't ever text me at length. Only when I initiate.

Do men exist that dont like talking on the phone? I refuse phone calls...so I get it. But is it just possible he doesnt like me?

Very confused over here.