Secondary infertility is not as hard as infertility with your first. (Granted your first pregnancy is now a healthy, living child.)

I understand many people feel as though they will never be complete without *another* child.

I understand you feel like you’ve let you other child(ren) down if you don’t give them a sibling.

At the end of the day, you’re a mama. I am not. Not only have i never experienced pregnancy or motherhood, i don’t have a ticket in to the mommyhood “club”.

This is obviously just my opinion and i already know I’m gonna get nasty, bitter comments, but to my other “not mamas” out there, i see you, i feel you, i am you, and don’t let anyone else whose trying for *another* under your skin today.