Anyone elses parents siblings really bad to you but are excellent grandparents or aunts my parents have always treated me like the biggest burden ever specially my mom an sister but yet they are so so good with my kids we are no longer on speaking terms an want nothing to do with each other but for some reason I don't know why I feel guilty that my kids are going to miss out on really good grandparents an aunts I just don't see how my own parents can treat me the way they do an yet are so good to my kids