Every birthday, Christmas, and Valentine’s Day my husband gets me gifts and every year it’s lingerie and/or a sex toy. I’m trying to not be ungrateful but I’m so tired of only getting sexual things. At this point I’d prefer to just not get anything especially since I’m a bigger girl and the lingerie he gets me is made for smaller women so I look and feel horrible and unattractive in them and the sex toys always have something to do with anal and I HATE anal. He knows this. We have tried SEVERAL times and it hurts and I hate it every single time. I’ve told him I dont really like the never ending sexual gifts and he didn’t really seem to listen. Am I just being a bitch or would you be upset if you only ever got sexual gifts?