I love my OH but the “I have work so I can’t help you at night” situation is killing me slowly.

If he was working long 12 hour days like some of your ladies partners/husbands I could sort of bite my tongue a little (even though he should definitely still be helping me). But he starts at 8am (he’s road based so the second he steps in the van he’s “at work”). Then most days he’s getting home around 3pm and takes about 30 mins to complete his paperwork.

He does do his fair share otherwise, he’ll play with her after work, we take turns every other night to do the bedtime routine, we take turns to have a lay in at the weekend so we get a lay in each once a week. But it’s like anything after midnight is a case of count him out. He says it’s because she will occasionally want a feed (I BF) and I’ve already told him - not an issue - I will always leave a couple of bottles in the fridge before they need moving to the freezer so if he thinks she’s hungry there is milk available. But he had the nerve to complain that having to come down and warm it up is longer than just popping a boob out 🤯 like what does he think would happen if we fed formula?

With sleep regression and baby waking every hour or so after 12am I am beyond exhausted I feel like a zombie. It’s Valentine’s Day and I’m about to go to bed at 8:30pm because I just need a head start before the wake ups start again later on tonight.

Is anyone else’s other half like this at night?