So, i just lost my virginity yesterday. He was gentle but the thing is, he's really big (about 8 in) and very girthy but im really small. So i bled when it happened and for 3 hours after. But today i was really uncomfortable and wanted to check on it so i stuck a finger in to see if it would hurt but now im bleeding again.I didn't do it rough tho. Is this normal? Will i end up having to go to the doctor? I thinkni was uncomfortable cause it was trying to heal. So it was basically picking scabs (obviously wasn't thinking)

Any advice?