abstinence tips 😫

I am waiting until marriage to have sex, but I never realized how hard it would be 😭😭😭. My boyfriend and I make out pretty often and after a certain point we both just want more. He doesn’t want to have sex either but he’s not as strict about it as I am, so sometimes he asks if we can do other things besides p/v sex (like fingering/hand job). Even though I really want to say yes, I have to force myself to say no because I feel like if we go too far there’ll be no going back. Ladies who also waited/want to wait until marriage, please help me out!! I’m afraid of doing something I’ll regret...