Venting

I have 2 girls, a toddler (22 months) and a 3 month old. Every time we go to the grocery store, without fail, someone comments “whoa looks like you have your hands full.” I know it’s not a big deal and they don’t mean anything by it, but it always squashes my confidence. I feel like I actually have it pretty together and that I’ve mastered going out with the girls (for the grocery store I have my baby in a baby carrier, my toddler in one hip and my diaper bag on the other arm...once we’re in the store the toddler sits in the cart). Every time someone says that I feel like I must look frazzled and a hot mess. Again, not a big deal but I was thinking I finally had it all together!