Minor rant... opinions...

okay can I have a minor rant? should I be mad?? this is kinda be kinda long! I’m 21. my boyfriend & I don’t live with any of our families. we actually work for a carnival. make our own money. okay so I just recently got a tattoo, that’s for my family. like flowers representing my family members birth flowers. okay so, I posted it & my boyfriend sister commented, “you’s should be saving money. instead of getting tattoos”.. I kinda ignored it.. well then his uncle commented “oh you kids should be saving your money.. not to be a Debby downer ..” Like idk if I should be annoyed .. pissed but I kinda am.. like it’s annoying when ppl tell me what to do w my money.. but when my boyfriend sent his mom $700 last year & then $300+ already this year & his dad asked for $250 then went on vacation nothing was said by any of them... but I get a $80 tattoo w my money it’s a big deal.. idk. I needed to rant, vent. because my boyfriend gets upset when I get upset about it...