whats more damaging to the kids? (in description)

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option #1: married parents who disagree on how to raise them and constantly undermine eachother, but both love them.
option #2 only one parent raising them, with other extended family members around who agree, support, and impliment the same parenting styles.

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Sorry. Mis-read it. I’d say option #1 is more damaging. 
It’s not healthy or ideal to have kids being raised around people who undermine each other. Kids learn by example. So it’s best to do why we can to set the best example possible (surrounded by people who support each other).

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I accidentally voted for option two, I meant option one!

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Well I chose option 2 in real life, so I'm going to have to vote for that.

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Sorry i read wrong. Option 1 is more damaging. Children will not learn what behaviors and such are actually approperiate and will be confused and often will act out because of the inconsistencies. So option 1 is more damaging. Option 2 is the least damaging

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I mis-read the question 😖. 
I definitely say option 1 is more harmful to the kids.
My parents have been together for 50 years and honestly, they should have divorced before I was even born 😔 
I would have to say that my mom was abusive both emotionally and physically to us kids as well as my dad. 
My parents fought, mostly because my mom used to be more manipulative and throw pity parties and yell/cry/hit when she wouldnt get her way. (Its either inherited or a learned behaviour from my grandma...😔 my aunt was this way as well)  I always thought it was my parents fighting but as a grown woman I realize it was my mom bulling people including my dad 😔
I developed severe anxiety, to the point where I almost couldnt work, as a child from all the yelling and abuse, not realizing it until my early 30s...
I realize this is not really the same as ur option 1 but any toxicity, when it comes to raising children, can be more harmful than you anticipate or want.
In retrospect, I would have rathered my parents get divorced when I was younger.

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I’m currently living situation 2, and my kids seem to be doing perfectly fine.

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My parents don’t have the same parenting style so they didn’t agree much on discipline.

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Dang-it I misunderstood and picked the one I would do instead of the one that I thought was most damaging.  Sorry. ￼

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im in an option #1 marriage lol so deffinately option #2 🤦🏾‍♀️ trying to get there atm

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I pushed two I meant one

whats more damaging to the kids? (in description)

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