I am exiled off the property.

I am wrong to think this a messed up situation? My boyfriend still participates in a “family dinner” I was once apart of.

He is not actually related to them and this family had a girl that was I was super close too and was a friend from high school. We were still friends even after high school.

My gal friend, now ex-friend, was being inappropriate around my boyfriend. They were doing more couple stuff solo then I was with my own boyfriend.

I had a problem and voiced it to my boyfriend and he told my friend before I could. Not cool. But anyways it got messy and she shut me out of her life.

The kicker is that he is still invited to “family dinner” every week and I am not obviously. I am not allowed on the property but he still goes without me.

He told me if I gave him an ultimatum I would not be the choice he would make and continues to go despite how sad and and it makes me.

I try to communicate and he doesn’t want to listen or doesn’t take me seriously. He calls them my “fits” and I am not allowed to have my “fits” anymore (like hell I won’t).

Being belittled, caste aside, and not being taken seriously has taken a toll on my mental health but I am trying to take care of my wellness more.

But every time he goes over I get heated. I just needed a place to vent and I’m not trying to air out my dirty laundry so that is why I am posting anonymously.