Do you choke your boyfriend during sex?

Question

Me and my boyfriend are 17 & like most people our age we're messing around and figuring out what we like during sex. Well I really want to try choking him when I'm on top but I'm not gonna just reach for his throat, I know that I need to communicate about it first. But I feel like it's seen as unusual or weird for girls to get dominant so idk how have to the conversation without making it seem like I'm trying to overpower him

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If you aren’t comfortable talking to the person you’re having sex with about sex then you shouldn’t be doing it. Just bring it up to him. If he says no, drop it. If he says he’s open to it, do some research together. I’ve never choked a guy but I very much enjoy being choked myself

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Men do NOT have the overall power during sex. It is a two person thing and women should be able to get just as handsy as men do. There are women that are submissive and there are women who like to take control. Both women are valid and normal. Just ask him if he's okay with the idea of getting choked and go from there. You're allowed to have dominant kinks.

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Just talk to him and ask if he’d be into it. If he isn’t then no big deal. If he is then cool. You being afraid it will seem like you’re trying to overpower him is a little concerning to me. It isn’t weird for guys to be submissive sometimes or all the time during sex.

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yes , only when i'm riding tho😂

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Before I was with my husband me n my ex were extremely into being rough we wouldn’t choke but we pulled hair we’re really rough and hard on each other ... well when I entered my new relationship I kinda brought it with and one drunk night I went to loose on him and let’s just say it was a Hard No from him... he’s more passionate and slow make love man and I grew to love passion more then rough sex... you can either enter it to your relationship and see his response lol or talk to him on it it never hurts

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Talk to him. And a way to move into it is starting with hands on his chest then slowly moving them to his neck.

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Talk to him, talk to him, talk to him

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I choke my man when I’m riding.

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