I was talking to my best friend mom last night and she kept telling me she was going to pray for me, because the first baby is always the hardest and the longest. Then she asked me did I ever have cramps or pain I told her no, she just told me I’m in for it and to not do it natural because I don’t think I need anything’s since I’m very active, and I was always told if you didn’t have cramps you’re child birth wouldn’t hurt. She didn’t scare me it’s just she kept saying it’s the longest, hardest thing for a women, and it’s closest thing to death for us.