First prenatal appointment..

How far away were you for your first prenatal appointment? I used to have severe nausea and vomiting to the point where I was literally in the ER every other day for an IV because I couldn’t eat anything or keep anything down. Then I had some bleeding, ended up going to the ER & it’s a subchronic hematoma. I’m having some painful cramping but I just get so scared because I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks last time I was pregnant. I’m only 8 weeks now. I’ve called my OB numerous times because this has been going on since 4 weeks. She refuses to see me any sooner than April 2nd, which means I’ll be 12 weeks, 3 days. I believe that’s ridiculous. I’m basically going through my whole first trimester by myself with frequent ER visits, which are awful because I’m literally there for 8 hours every time I go. Am I being ridiculous or what? I’m not sure but I hate this.. I just get so scared that I’m going to miscarry again. ☹️