Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I recently found out that my now ex boyfriend has been cheating on me for months. I had a suspicion that it was going on but didn’t have any proof. Until I had multiple women reach out to me on Facebook letting me know. One of them was super nice and made sure to send me screenshots of all the inappropriate stuff that he was sending her. I confronted him over lunch (so I’d stay calm), and he had absolutely nothing to say. No excuses, nothing. I won’t get into details about the conversation but I told him not to call, or text me. And that if he would like to reach out to me regarding our child he can email me. Well I haven’t received any emails... just a bunch of messages and calls.

But the reason I write is I’m having a really tough time deciding what to do with the situation. The stubborn and hurt part of me wants to give him limited access to anything related to the pregnancy or our child once once he/she is born. And that the second he cheated on me, he lost all privileges to have a part of our lives. But the other part of me doesn’t know if that is the right thing to do. Should I be the bigger person and allow him to be involved as much as he would like? Idk what to do. Would love to know if anyone has ever been in this situation before and what they did.

Btw, I do have a very supportive family! They have made it clear that they will stand behind me and help me through if I need it.