Am I the crazy one?

Layla

So, here’s a little backstory. Me and this guy in the military met on a dating app, I’ll call him Jo. Jo is pretty attractive and we’ve talked since June of last year. Truthfully, I have been late responding to him sometimes and have occasionally gone a while without talking to him or seeing him. I can admit my faults there, but I’m an introvert, home body & have social anxiety so going out on a date sounds good until the time rolls around.

So, like I said I was in the wrong for doing that. Well, we started talking again recently and I apologized MULTIPLE times. I explained why and admitted my wrongs. He told me that it was no big deal but he seemed to hold a grudge & would start ignoring me.

After seeing that, I told him that I really am sorry but if he will continue to hold that against me then there’s nothing more I could do.

He said he’s not holding it against me so we started talking again, we’re having GREAT conversation and then he ignored me. I decided I was done with it because it was just super annoying at this point on both ends. So, the other day he replies to a post of mine on Snapchat saying I looked pretty or whatever. I said something along the lines of: “thanks, but why are commenting on here when you couldn’t text me back lol?” He said “Lol, I did but ok I’ll keep my comments to myself from now on.” I asked when cuz I didn’t see it and he just seems really annoyed. I then look to see if he did and he did three days later. So, I replied to him in text messages saying that he did text me but I didn’t see it. He just responded with “Right. Well, I’m done with this thing. Have a nice day.”

I felt the same way but didn’t want to be mean. The whole thing was tiresome tbh. But, am I crazy or in the wrong here?

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