Our sex life is good but I’m not used to this boring shot okay . Whenever I mention something dominant or aggressive he says I’m not a hoe I’m a lady like damn !! I want you to slurp my shit from the back while I’m ina sex swing mf . Gentle ass also might I add we don’t have enough oral sex. Ya girl is crying, his ego too big to ask for changes lol .

Edit: it’s not like he is against it .. his thing is that I have a history of Rape and my last relAtionship was abusive and he just feels like he has to be gentle so he doesn’t trigger anything but I’ve been telling him from the beginning it’s not like that and especially now.. I trust him with my whole soul.. he lets it out sometimes and “almost “ gets it there .. I orgasm every time I just want that extra kick of dominance he’s holding back . It’s like he’s all about it until it happens then he gets scared .