Telling family during covid

I started to tell my family we are pregnant. We just found out the gender and I was happy to share the news with immediate family. During quarantine I have been telling a few people a day because I want something to look forward to. We told our grandfather in my husbands family and before I could tell my grandmother I got a text from my husbands aunt who knew. Apparently poppy told my husbands aunt and her kids. Poppy does not take quarantine seriously, he was hanging out eating with friend when we called. So he does not realize that I’m a scared pregnant mom who has been quarantined for over 2 weeks, making that sacrifice for my family including him, and I can barely convince myself to leave the house and I could not just go walk this off since it was pouring today. I’m super over him and this is just about the last straw for me. He is cold hearted and only interested in my family when it’s convenient for him. I’m not sharing any news of this baby with him. He was super inappropriate to me during my last pregnancy, don’t think he will be giving me any life advice from his book that I’ll need during this one.