My Parents Are Racist...

I honestly can't believe how far things have gone.... With everything going on you would think it would bring people closer together... Well basically starting from the beginning me and my husband had become foster parents. We fostered an 11 year old boy for about a year before we adopted him. He is Asian. When we first adopted him my parents made snide comments saying I should have gotten a white BABY not an Asian preteen. Or when my son would have trouble in school saying things like I thought Asians were supposed to be smart. Little jabs like that I could kinda deal with, but as the crisis has happened it got worse. My son is 14 now and I have two other kids. 16 year old girl and 8 year old boy. Well they just started excluding my son from things. Wouldn't talk to him over the phone and two days ago my mom messaged me asking if he was born in China, and could he have the Corona virus. The thing is, my son is Korean(Being Asian is more than just Chinese and Japanese). For almost three years we have told them he is Korean not Chinese and they still call him Chinese. Anyway. I took offense to that and again reminded her that he's Korean and my dad chimed in, in the background and said "They all eat dogs. They're all the same". My mom laughed! I yelled saying it wasn't funny. My mom said I am overreacting. But I so pissed. I told her that her and dad are racist. And this women literally said. 'Just because I have certain views and say certain things that may be or seem racist doesn't mean I am" and I'm just like...

I told them they needs to get it together because I'm tired of putting up with it. My dad once uses the hard R N word around my kids and when I called him out on it he said "At least I laid boff the Asian" and again laughed. Mom told me I need to understand they come from a different time. She told me it was considered by her family unusual to hand out with black, Mexico, or Asian people. Basically anyone who isn't white. Which doesn't make sense since she has plenty of black cousins. I got tired of the conversion and hung up. I stopped answering my parents phone calls because I can't keep having their racism around my children. My sister called me up this morning saying I was being disrespectful to our parents and I need to stop being a prissy little bitch and apologize. And I'm just like

Why should I have to apologize. Uhhhh.... Honestly I'm so tired of fucking family...