Someone else or just stressed?

Question

My husband has been rejecting me for 2 weeks. It’s also my fertile window. 
He says he is stressed because of the world collapsing due to the virus. 
Both our jobs are secure because of the virus we are able to work from home.
We have a toddler and recently got a pup.
I kept bringing it up how he is rejecting me and he doesn’t say anything but stress as the factor. 
He doesn’t really touch me anymore and isn’t affectionate. It’s like we’re roommates lately. 
I’m not really sure how to proceed anymore. I am craving my husband for more than 2 weeks now, and tried to be sexy, but it doesn’t work. He says he ‘can’t perform’ because of too many things on his mind. What can I do

Answer

I think being stressed is a legit thing right now. You may be well off but a lot of people aren’t. The economy isn’t going to be in good shape after this, a lot of small businesses may close down. I understand you miss him but his feelings sound valid to me. Maybe ask him for a compromise in the middle, some more cuddling or hugs or something like that to get a little intimacy. He may be afraid to give you that right now cuz he doesn’t want you to think it will lead to sex and then he has to turn you down again.

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A lot of things can make it difficult for him to get it up. Stress, depression, medication, it’s psychological with them. Hence the lingerie business and strippers. Can’t touch but it’s visual. Has he been on his phone a lot or receiving text messages late at night. I can’t tell you if he’s on tinder or having an emotional affair etc. I’m also not encouraging you to snoop through his phone. I have not seen my guy since this crap started he lives an hour away and has kids. So we talk daily. He happened to text me as I was flicking my bean and informed me that he tried to masturbate him self and couldn’t  get hard due to them changing his medication. Apparently it’s a side effect. He has an spot April 15 if they don’t cancel it. I felt bad but I had to poke fun to see if I could get him to smile. I said they broke your pee pee and took away the one thing that you enjoyed. Poor you. I said well at least I know neither of us is getting laid while we are apart. Honestly. Your guy could be masturbating and isn’t in the mood because he’s already done it. Could be the stress that he can’t get it up or depression etc. it’s the same thing for us. Women easily get pregnant when they aren’t trying. When you are trying it can take a year to get pregnant because you are stressing so much and get depressed when you aren’t etc. same when you are having sex. How can you enjoy it when you are thinking about all the things that you need to get done. It’s psychological. Or as a kid walking in on your parents having sex that is something that stays with you and is a mood killer. Give him some space. Don’t pressure him. Maybe he needs to talk to a professional or something. They have online doctor services on this app. 50 bucks if you don’t have insurance. It’s like face time with a doctor. If you need meds they can send it over to the pharmacy etc. they have a mental health area as well. Most churches offer free counseling as well. Good luck either way.

Someone else or just stressed?

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