Can you be a feminist and still find it hot when a guy offers to pay for dinner/cares for you/buys you flowers and all that crap?

This is a question I've been wondering for a while. I don't mean expecting him to pay and getting mad if he doesn't, but the gesture is nice. I guess there's just something pretty hot about man taking responsibility and offering to 'care' for you.

Is that anti feminist? Or is it really just preference? After all I like taking care of a man too, financially emotionally however he needs, and I like making gestures too.

I'm sincerely hoping feminism isn't a sensitive subject by the way. Couldn't find anything that says I can't post about this, but not sure 🤷🏻‍♀️

(Also this post is anonymous because if I'm wildly wrong and a shit feminist after all I don't want to start a fight)