What do I do??

I started talking talking to a guy, and he is little older than me. We have talked about us meeting up. He ask if we would do anything when we met up ( I am still a virgin). I told him I didn’t know. He asked why not because rude, and I told him the women in my family don’t have the best record for the first time. He understood. So what I am asking is what can I do to give him that excitement with out doing it.

And could the age gap be throwing us both off..