Venting Session

I had my twin girls five months ago via IVF. There was a point in my life when I didn’t think I’ll be a mom it took ten long years to finally have my babies.

I’m the type of person that likes to figure things out on my own I take great pride in that. So now that I’m a mom I wanna be able to figure out motherhood on my own without unsolicited advice from well my husband mom 🙄. Often it’s not so much advice but rather did you check this? Don’t do that type comments. I’m over it! I have expressed my feelings to my husband and he feels I’m overreacting. I don’t need anyone behind me making sure I need to do what I gotta do. It’s annoying to say the least because you just pretty much insulting me by saying you don’t trust my ability to be a mom without having to say it. My relationship with her has changed because of this. Now I’m annoyed even when my husband FaceTime her to see my girls.

I feel like saying something to her. I’m not a moron or stupid I just need her to stay in her lane and let me mother without her feeling the need to be behind me. I’m even more annoyed at my husband for not even understanding me but I already knew this. Because it’s his mom or family he doesn’t get it but if it was mine he will then understand

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