Underwear dilemma

So my husband requested that after I heal that I go back to wearing more sexy underwear. Rightfully so! I’ve been in granny panties almost my entire pregnancy, so I get where he’s coming from for sure!

My dilemma/ my concern is that I’ll feel uncomfortable because right now every time I sneeze, I pee lol 🤦🏽‍♀️ it has me feeling extremely self conscious and I highly doubt it will stop post partum.

So I don’t want to be wearing a thong or skimpy underwear when I can’t wear liners with them or anything like that to absorb my embarrassing leakage.

Any advice on how to deal with this?? It’s stressing me out.