What to call my boyfriend in bed?

La

Lauren

Hi guys so my boyfriend and I have really gotten kinky in our relationship in a lot of different ways and we’re having a great time. He always refers to me as “slut” when we’re having sexy time and we both really like that, but we’re trying to figure out something to call him. I tried calling him “daddy” and he said he was perfectly fine with it but it didn’t particularly “get him going” or anything. He said he doesn’t like “sir” because it’s too formal and I feel like he’ll probably feel the same way about “master”? Idk, but what do you guys call your doms besides those three things? I told him I need something special to call him to help me get into kinky sexy mode and he’s willing to try things out until we get a good one! Help please!!!

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La

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An update if anyone was wondering, I asked him about master and he said he didn’t like it, so we decided to just keep using daddy and give him some time to get used to it and he definitely likes it now! His biggest thing is that he’s only a Dom in a sexual context so he doesn’t want to be called daddy unless we are hooking up or sexting. In everyday life he prefers we both call each other “baby” because he “only feels like daddy in bed” which is totally fine!

Ma

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Try master it works for my BF drives him crazy

Me

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It definitely can be hard to settle on a name/titleI’ve heard of people just choosing the first letter of their persons name? Can come across mysterious and sexyOr pick a special variation of his actual name that you only use for sexy timesOther relatively common names I’ve heard in the kink community:-majesty-dom (just straight and to the point lol)-Mr. (although that’s kinda close to sir or master)Overall, it’s not something anyone will be particularly helpful with I think- as it’s all about finding YOUR guys term. But it’s some ideas to get ya rolling hopefully

Et

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I call him daddy and he calls me slut. Thats a hard one