Should I start doing this ? ( read description first )

So I made a post before but I think it was too confusing so I’m making a new one an will try to make it less confusing to get a better option.

So me and my husband have had problems ( no cheating just things like how he acts with me his fam his way of doing things how he gets mad easily when he doesn’t like something and think he’s always right etc. Things like that and keep in my I have my own imperfections too)

But one thing that he says he hates that I do is that I always ask him the same questions everyday. ( if he loves me etc)

Like I’m always asking stuff when we’re alone (bc for now we live with his fam) and I always tell him I ask all that because how he doesn’t show affection and how he treats me ( and no he doesn’t hit me ) so he claims he can’t show anything or change on other things ( that yes we have talked about our problems etc.) but he says he can’t do it because as soon as I start all my questions he gets mad and annoyed and that prohibits him from actually trying and just wants me to stop it.

And I’m like asking stuff and I stress out too much about everything that he does wrong and if he makes one mistake I ask several times. Like He thinks all I wanna talk about is the problems we have , after talking about it. And he says that gets him mad and if I get upset when he’s mad he won’t seem to care because it all happened because I was asking same questions over and over.....

And btw he says we won’t move out until we’re good in our relationship and know this will last but he has clear that we won’t be 100^ until we move out, but that’s not the problem rn

MY QUESTION IS

Even though it’s hard should I try and stop all the questions and just see what happens and not think or talk about the same problems all the time? And instead focus on myself and just give him the opportunity to see if he does change and if that’s the reason why like he says.

Should I start doing this ,??