Help me

I’ve been out of love since the month I conceived our 22 month old daughter. I’m a hair stylist and I’m completely dependent on him and I just don’t know what to do. I try but he’s so negative and it’s been years. I think we are just too different and tbh I would have left if I Haden’s found out we were pregnant. He’s a great guy, I’m just not in love with him anymore and I don’t find him attractive anymore. He’s lazy, he doesn’t share the same views or ideas of the future with me. Like he’s great other wise, he’s a great dad, he’s involved enough and he loves her... I just don’t know what to do anymore .