So I have this...friend(for now) whos fully aware of the fact that i lost my son last April to still birth.

Well we were talking about having children and time times and that sometimes our plans dont always work out how we meant them to.

For me it was my son passing away and then a little over a month later getting pregnant again with doctors clearence to start trying again. Got pregnant prolly the first time we made love afterwards.

Anyway my friend was upset because shes been trying for 2 months to have baby #2. Her daughter was born in feb. Like my rainbow baby boy. Her doctor hasn't given the okay to even have sex yet as she had 3rd degree ripping(idk how its even comfortable tbh i was lucky not to rip with my second and it was still uncomfortable the first few times) and i tell her things will happen when its time, and for her just to enjoy her new bundle of joy as long as possible. She scoffs and said "thats easy for you to say not everyone can get pregnant as fast as you can" and at the time i could only walk away and i ended up crying for awhile. Like first of all i have fertility issues and it took awhile to conceive my first son, and honestly i never thought it would happen, and then to loss him? How could she say that to me? Second the ONLY reason we were okayed to start trying so soon is because i had little to no ripping and my fertility issues mixed with lossing our child made the doctor think the sooner the better if we really wanted a child. I was so blessed to be able to conceive the second time so fast after such a big loss.

I understand she wants another baby but hers is ALIVE and only two months old. So maybe im not pissed...im more sad and heartbroken