So I recently got out of a 5 year relationship . One that I haven’t been able to feel anything towards the other for a while . A lot of physical and mental abuse . Anyways ... long story short I met someone and have gotten kinda really serious . No sex isn’t everything but I have a problem ... he hasn’t been in a relationship in 2 years and is use to jacking off ... idk but he only really likes jacking off to porn and then cums inside of me when he’s about to cum and then fucks me for like a minute or two ... all this is very new to me ... I mean I find it sexy sometimes but he’s only really had sex with me we we first started dating and cummed in me a lot and had sex like twice . I don’t like watching a lot of porn and getting myself off ... I rarely can anymore unless I’m really really horney . I’m just very insecure about myself . But anyways I told him we would have to set some boundaries with all of this ...I just personally don’t like getting all horney and then not being able to get off . 😣🥴 I haven’t really talked to him about this . I did some , but I guess he’s use to doing what he does ... but this guy means so much to me I would do anything for him but I really don’t know how to approach this .. I do have a rabbit I recently bought . I don’t use it a lot anyways . Also . My long relationship we never did a lot of four play . And he rarely like 3 or 4 times in 5 years ate me out ...I really need some advice and opinions bwcqsue I know making him happy but yea ... it would be greatly appreciated....