Husband won’t stop making fun of me

Hi ladies,

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. I am currently 6 months pregnant and feeling insecure with my body. I’ve never thought my body was hairy, I’ve been with other men and not one has ever complained about my “hair”. I don’t have dark body hair, believe me I’ve asked many people. I’ve never felt insecure about it, until he started to make fun. It started off as “awww look at your little hairs” (if I forgot to shave) to lifting my shirt when I’m faced away from him and making hurtful jokes, even saying he’s going to shave it when I’m asleep. (This usually happens before we fall asleep). He always expects me to be in the mood to have sex after he’s made fun of my body.

So last night, I decided to try all new body products while shaving so that my skin would be silky smooth. I looked at my back, DIDNT see any hair (I never do, I think he’s knit picking) and I wore my favorite dress. He noticed everything was extra smooth and he complimented me. He then proceeded to lift my dress up, look at my back (I guess I missed a spot?) and LAUGH at me.

I am devastated. I’m so hurt by this, he doesn’t care how extremely insecure it makes me feel. Of course I just pulled my dress down and I told him I hate when he makes fun of me. It’s to the point where I don’t even want to have sex with him because I don’t want to show him any part of my body. I just feel so defeated, like I can’t tell him how I feel without him dismissing me like I’m overreacting. Any suggestions?

**response to some comments (I have a lot of friends on this app so I’d feel better answering from here**

Thank you for your suggestions ladies 💛

I have tried to tell him in the past about how it makes me feel but he never takes me seriously

I think maybe you guys are right! If he doesn’t get it this time, maybe I will take a different approach and give him a taste of his own medicine!