Attacted to a certain type of person?

Im married to start. Lately i have been observing my friends and peers relationships and how they interact and personality types. I have noticed that in 2 relationships the males are similar to me. We deny affection, fear being dirty from touch and have low social batteries. My husband is like the women, very affectionate and will do anything for a kiss (in as little words as possible.)

So as ive been observing and people watching i have become curious if other (successful) couples have this give and take. It seems like an opposites attract but those certain relationship specific disconnects worry me at times. Im seeing things very black and white. Please help, im anxious.