Stay in Quarantine!! No visitors 🙄

My boyfriend mom keeps trying to come over to see our kid. She asked a couple times to come over directly but we keep it at limit visitations if we say yesss.. so that was earlier before they ordered ppl to stay home because we would still go out occasionally to shop for necessities. But, now my son and I don’t go anywhere unless it’s on the front porch for fresh air. However, his mom makes excuses to come over for things all the time. She comes to drop random things off, such as my boyfriend old belongings (game system that he haven’t played in years, misc cords, and opened foods that he left when he lived there) unannounced most of the times. Several of his family members have tested positive and so have ppl in my family that neither of us had contact with. But, I want to keep us all in the clear at the best of my ability so I don’t care to see anyone until it’s safe and/or emergency. My boyfriend is an essential worker so it’s bad enough that he has to work during the week, because that’s putting us in jeopardy. More importantly, I am 9 months pregnant and I’m definitely trying to keep my babies in the clear. But, now she doesn’t ask me to come over or to get our son, because I say no. Now she asks him, and he keeps telling me and saying that she won’t be over long, she just miss him and wants to see him. But, I just feel that it’s unnecessary and that she can fucking wait. Am I being harsh??

Also, she FT all the time. My son talks to them (her and other ppl in the house) everyday if not more than once a day 🙄