Time with “if it happens, it happens” mindset to conceive?

Hey folks!

My SO and I are on our first cycle with this new ‘if it happens, it happens’ philosophy with sex. We used condoms as our only form of contraception before, so it’s not like I’m coming off of hormones. I know it takes healthy couples up to a year to conceive when truly trying, so I don’t have high hopes. With all of that, how long did it take you to conceive, if you did end up pregnant from this? Or did you have to try?

I can already tell I’m going to be heartbroken if tests keep coming up negative so maybe I should just start being more aggressive. Thought I’d check in here first though!