Am I wrong for wanting space?
Alright so I have this friend that I met in a moms group on Facebook. We met 2 years ago right after our babies were born and we hit it off. The only thing is that our friendship is basically long distance and have only met in person twice in the last two years since we live hours apart. So most of our interaction is through fb messenger. The problem is that she loves to video chat and I hate it. I am more of a texting person but she wants to video chat all the time. It’s exhausting...
So recently I have been going through a hard time, between the covid crap and some personal issues (dealing with 2 miscarriages back to back) I really don’t feel like talking to her at all. I have told her what’s going on with me and asked that she give me some time. I don’t want to video chat with her or even message with her right now. She said she understood and was really sweet about it but she is continuing to message me and it’s quite frankly pissing me off.
She messages me random stuff like “thinking of you and praying for you”
“Here are some beautiful photos that might make you feel better” she sent me pictures of flowers and stuff 🙄
I again told her I appreciate her care but just need some time. She messaged that she was sorry she kept messaging me and told me to take all the time I need. That was two days ago and tonight she messaged me again
“Hey I’m thinking about you and praying for you. Here is a meditation that helps me when I feel down...”
Like I am honestly so irritated at this point but feel bad that I’m irritated because she is being kind.
I mean am I wrong to want her to leave me alone? Am I wrong to ask that?
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.