I’m so confused and annoyed

Okay so this might be a little confusing but here we go. My husband and I got married last year without anyone knowing besides our parents because we are having a wedding with everyone this year in a few months. We got married last year so I could have insurance, obviously that is not the only reason but that is why we did it a year early by ourselves. We do love each other and get along great I just want that to be 100% clear.

My issue is this, he does not want this wedding and thinks it’s stupid Bc we are already married, he did not tell me this until after I booked the venue. He also says that I do absolutely deserve the wedding I want. But He has not asked any of his groomsmen! I keep reminding him here and there nicely. The wedding is in a few months so he needs to ask them ASAP. He obviously does not think I deserve the wedding I want because he is doing nothing to cooperate. I wish I could just cancel it but my mother in law has put so much money into it already.

Idk, I have no one to talk to about this and I’m just feeling very confused and not sure what to do.