I’ve been going behind my husbands back and against his wishes

But let me explain, my husband has very conservative views about boy things and girl things. I’m conservative as well in most things but I don’t think a boy liking the color pink is the end of the world.

He got mad when I bought our 3 year old pink sunglasses because that’s what he wanted. He would actually mock our 3 year old for it. After I told him “pretty sure God created all colors and never assigned them to boys or girls”, he stopped doing it although I could tell that made him mad too.

The latest is that our son saw a my little pony show on Hulu and kept asking to watch it. Now initially I didn’t want him to. Not because it’s a “girl show” but because I’ve seen some very creepy grown men obsessed with that show and I wouldn’t want our son being like that. But I decided that’s silly and he’ll probably grow out of it like he does most things so I’m letting him watch a little today.

My husband doesn’t know and I know he’ll be upset about it. Also I know he’ll see it because it’ll be on the “continue watching” but whatever. He’ll get over himself. I just wish I could change his mind towards these things. Our son loves trucks and dinosaurs and playing in the dirt. The color pink and a show about ponies isn’t going to make him any less of a boy.