I need unbiased advice

Okay so I’m in a position and need some unbiased advice.

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and I am currently in a year lease with my sister and niece. I moved out here to help with my niece because my sister is a single mom. He has a job opportunity that is 3hrs away and we’ve talked about moving in with eachother after this lease but I’ve been a little hesitant anyway. Now with this job offer he wants us to move in together but also move in together 3hrs away from my friends, family, and the job I have out here.

He wants to move out there because he is struggling financially here and doesn’t have the best paying job or the nicest apartment. He also doesn’t have a car so it would be solely on me to travel to him if we decided to be long distance.

It feels like he is giving me an ultimatum and is a little upset that I don’t want to move three hours away to a place where I have no support or stability on my own. I want to be a supportive girlfriend but I feel like he is set on just picking up and moving.

This it the first year I’ve been completely on my own financially and paying rent for a place I love. Ive had my job for over a year and he has had three jobs during this past year. It’s a little scary to just pick up and move 3hrs away and this idea was sprung on me only a few days ago. It seems like he’s already made up his mind.

What do you guys think of the situation? Do you think I am over thinking it or wrong for being hesitant and not wanting to pick up and move?

Any advice?