Need Help..

I have been dating this guy for about 4 months, and we had sex the first time we meet. The last few weeks he has been over every night and no sex for months since we meet. I ask him about it and try to, but he keeps saying no. He said that he is not intermeant, and said he is scared to have a another child, cause his ex is keeping his daughter away from him. He keeps calling me “love” and tells me that he loves me. So one night, I said made love to me, and he said I am here ant I? Yes you are. He has only been separated and divorce for a year. I said that I can get on the pill and kinda got mad. How can I made him love me and make love to me. He is always having ear buds in when we go to bed, it helps him sleep with music, and I get that. What can I say or do to make him fall in love with me and have sex and make out? We kiss all the time but not make out. I want to feel love.