1st Time Breakup Advice

I broke up with my longest boyfriend recently ladies.

This was my first love y’all, we had so many plans and wanted to have a future together. I completely fell in love with this man. I know I got deep into the cliché. I started thinking that I was going to marry this guy, have kids, I was think this is “the one”.

I like most girls found that this was not the result of us being together. I cried in the relationship and I’m crying out of it. I would really appreciate some advice friends. With us being in quarantine and the breakup I already know this is going to be a long couple of months.

Please y’all any advice would be so helpful! What did you ladies do to rediscover yourself? How did you learn to be happy and single again? I turned 20 yesterday y’all and couldn’t find it in me to really celebrate I was so sad.

I know this is a supportive community so please, help a heartbroken girl out. 💕