What kind of girlfriend am I ?

Question

Am I a bad girlfriend if I just hold grudges or just set high expectations for people , especially my boyfriend ? I know he’s not perfect and won’t ever be Prince Charming but am I being normal or toxic?

Answer

I have decently high expectation for my bf bc I know what I want in a partner. This isn’t stuff like wanting him to buy me stuff and always surprise me but I have expectations for how I want my partner to be in public or around our families. Holding grudges isn’t healthy, I hold grudges but it’s something I’ve been working really hard to stop. 
My expectations aren’t set bc I want to be swept off my feet (it is nice something but if I want this I tell my bf it’s something I enjoy once in a while), but they’re to build a healthy communication. If my bf can’t meet those expectations (like communication, behaviours, etc) then I’m gonna leave bc I’m looking for a lifelong partner and best friend, not someone to fulfill Disney fantasies.

What kind of girlfriend am I ?

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