advice on a guy

hey guys,

so basically there is a boy that i think i’ve got feelings for and i don’t know what to do.

(bit of the back story)

we’ve only known eachother for around 5 months and we have become incredibly close and we’re best friends, but ever since we started talking there has always been a flirtatious side to our friendship.

i have liked him previously (about 2 months into knowing him) and yes i did eventually tell him but he told me he saw me as a friend and that he wasn’t wanting a relationship.

i was obviously upset but i got over it and stopped liking him but now feelings have rised again, we hang out a fair bit and we are VERY comfortable with eachother.

We have spooned and teased eachother sexually but in reality we haven’t done much. he isn’t like a normal guy and pushes you to do something or make the first move, he waits for you to feel comfortable enough too. but due to have bad past experiences with ex’s ect, i am very shy when i am not motivated as such, he knows all about my past and understands me and doesn’t mind waiting till i’m ready.

he has also said, it’s not the sexual reasons on why he wants to hang out, he really enjoys my company and wouldn’t be angry if i don’t wanna do anything.

i honestly don’t know what to do or how to adress the situation because i am very shy regarding sexual stuff but deep down i do really wanna do it but want him to make a move.

the last time we hung out, i had the perfect opportunity to make a move and kiss him but i was too scared that he would back off or it wouldn’t be good enough,

so what i’m asking is should i make a move and just be spontaneous??

thankyou xx